________________JUDICIAL DISTRICT COURT
COUNTY OF ___________________________
STATE OF NEW MEXICO
___________________________________________
Petitioner
v. No. ____________
_______________________________________________
Respondent
1. COURT ASSISTANCE REQUEST
[ ] We will need an interpreter in _____________ to translate at hearings for [ ]
me [ ] the petitioner.
[ ] We will need ___________________________________________ (describe
other request for special help).
2. INFORMATION ABOUT THE PETITIONER (the person I am filing
against)
A. The petitioner is:
[ ] my husband or [ ] my wife
[ ] my ex-husband or [ ] my ex-wife
[ ] the parent of my child(ren)
[ ] a family member _____________________ (describe the family
relationship)
[ ] a person with whom I have had a continuing personal
relationship _________________________________________
(describe the relationship).
B. The petitioner has the following weapons: __________________.
3. CHILD(REN)2
A. List minor child(ren) of either party.
Name Date of Relationship of Child(ren)
Birth To You To Petitioner
__________________ __________ __________ __________
__________________ __________ __________ __________
__________________ __________ __________ __________
__________________ __________ __________ __________
__________________ __________ __________ __________
B. List address and with whom the child(ren) are currently living. (List
each child separately if child(ren) do not reside with same person.)
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________.
C. List each address where child(ren) have lived during the last 3 years.
(List each child separately if child(ren) did not reside with same person.)
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________.
D. Does anyone else have physical custody of the child(ren) or claim to
have custody or visitation rights? [ ] yes [ ] no
If yes, complete the following for the child(ren):
Child's name Person claiming rights
____________________ ______________________________
____________________ ______________________________
4. OTHER CASES
[ ] The following divorce, separation, order of protection, child support,
paternity, abuse or neglect cases have been previously filed by me, the
petitioner or the state:
Type of Case Year Filed Case Number Where Filed
(if known) (if known) (city and state)
________________ __________ ____________ ____________________
________________ __________ ____________ ____________________
5. DOMESTIC ABUSE
A. The petitioner committed the following act(s) of domestic abuse against
me or a member of my household: (describe in detail what happened to you or
to a member of your household and when and where.)
Physical abuse: ________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________.
Threats which caused fear that you or any household member would be
injured: _______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________.
Other abuse: ____________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________.
B. Others present during the abuse ____________________________.
C. Did drugs or alcohol play a role in the domestic abuse? [ ] yes [ ] no
D. Were weapons used during the abuse? [ ] yes [ ] no.
If yes, what weapons? __________________________________
E. Has there been prior domestic abuse? [ ] yes [ ] no.
6. REQUESTS TO THE COURT
I REQUEST THAT THE COURT ORDER (check all that you want):
[ ] A. that the petitioner not contact me, not abuse me and that the
petitioner stay away from my residence, place of employment
and or school.
[ ] B. (1) that the petitioner shall immediately leave [ ] my [ ] our
residence.
OR
[ ] (2) that the petitioner provide me with temporary suitable
alternative housing.
[ ] C. that the petitioner shall not sell, remove, pawn, hide, destroy or
damage any property owned by me or the two of us jointly.
[ ] D. that law enforcement officers assist me in retrieving my clothing
and personal belongings from the residence at
____________________________________________________.
[ ] E. that I be given temporary custody of the child(ren) listed in this
petition.
[ ] F. that until the court hearing:
[ ] petitioner shall have the following contact with the
child(ren): ______________________________________
_____________________________________________.
[ ] petitioner shall have no contact with the child(ren).
[ ] G. that the petitioner shall pay:
[ ] support for the child(ren)
[ ] support for me.
[ ] H. that the petitioner shall pay me for the damage and medical bills
resulting from the abuse.
[ ] I. other relief that is necessary to resolve this domestic abuse
problem (list or describe what relief is necessary):
____________________________________________________
____________________________________________________
7. INFORMATION ABOUT THE RESPONDENT (ME)
(If you do not want the petitioner to know your address and phone number, do
not include it on this form. Tell the court clerk that you need to complete two
other forms (Forms 4-961A and 4-961B) for your name and address and
request that the clerk place your address under seal.)
[ ] A. I DO NOT WANT PETITIONER TO KNOW MY
ADDRESS NOW OR AFTER THE HEARING FOR THE
FINAL ORDER OF PROTECTION. I HAVE COMPLETED
FORM 4-961B AND GIVEN IT TO THE COURT CLERK.
OR
[ ] B. My physical address is: ___________________________ in the
[ ] County [ ] Indian Country of _______________________,
State of New Mexico.
My mailing address is:
___________________________________________ (street address)
___________________________________________ (city and zip)
My telephone numbers are:
Home Work Message
_____________ _______________ ______________
8. NOTICE TO PETITIONER
[ ] A. I have not told petitioner that I am filing a counter-petition to
ask the court for an order of protection because I believe irreparable harm
would result if I told petitioner before coming to court. (Describe what might
happen to you or what you are afraid might happen if the petitioner knew you
were asking for a court order of protection.).
__________________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________.
[ ] B. I have told petitioner that I am filing this counter-petition.
9. LOCATION OF PETITIONER
A. Petitioner may be found at:
___________________________________ (address)
___________________________________ (city)
___________________________________ (state and zip code)
___________________________________ (if in Indian Country, please name
tribe or pueblo).
Petitioner's:
_________________________ (social security number)
_________________________ (date of birth)
_________________________ (home telephone number)
_________________________ (work address)
_________________________ (work telephone number).
B. Is petitioner in jail? [ ] yes [ ] no
STATE OF NEW MEXICO }
COUNTY OF ________________ }
TRIBE OR PUEBLO __________ }
The respondent was sworn and states: I have read this counter-petition for order of
protection from domestic abuse and it is true to the best of my knowledge and belief.
I understand that I can be punished both civilly and criminally if any information in
this counter-petition is false.
__________________ __________________________
Date Signature of Respondent
Signed and sworn before me on this ____ day of ______________, ______.
Notary public
_________________________________
My commission expires: _______________________.
1. Respondent should complete all information known by
the respondent.
2. This part must be completed if there are children. Section 40-10-10 NMSA 1978 of the Child Custody Jurisdiction Act requires the first pleading of every custody action to give information under oath as to the child's present address, the places where the child has lived within the last 3 years and the names and present addresses of the persons with whom the child has lived during that period. If a child lives with you now, but you do not want petitioner to know your address, do not put your current address here, but do fill out Forms 4-961A
and 4-961B.
3. Use notes 1 and 2 are to be printed on pre-printed forms
published for use by pro se respondents. This note and
Use Note 4 should not be printed on the form. This form
has been approved by the Supreme Court of New Mexico
for use in the courts of this state and distribution pursuant
to Section 40-13-3 NMSA 1978. Pre-printed pro se
forms should include a lined blank page at the end of the
form for use by the respondent if the pre-printed form
does not include adequate space for a complete answer to
a question.
4. Section 40-13-3.1 NMSA 1978 provides that a victim in a
domestic abuse case shall not be required to pay for "the
issuance or service of a protection order". This has been
construed to mean that a petitioner or counter-petitioner
in a domestic abuse case is not required to pay a docket
or other filing fees or fee for service of process.
[Approved, effective May 1, 2001.]